First off, I don't know if this is exactly clear or not, but it's not as though the VHLM is exclusively not updated in the sim. Everything is done at once. If the VHLM players aren't updated, neither are the VHL players.
Second, you seriously need to adjust your approach with these complaints/suggestions. "I always come at things like this, just is how I am... check the picture and understand who I named my player after and you'll get my personality." Oh okay, that's fine then. In response maybe I should just say, "Well I'm a lazy fuck who hates change, that's just how I am. I'm just lazy. I'm just rude. It's how I roll. I even named my player after the most recent subject of My 600lb Life. Everyone else has to deal with it." Does that seem acceptable to you?
I get your frustration, and I'm glad your bringing up points like these, because changes like these can only be good. In fact normally I'd probably just be attempting to sleep right now because it's almost 2:00am, but I now figured I'd do a chunk of updating first. Except deep down I feel awful for responding like that to shit like this. It's like, "Hey, some drunk asshole is shouting obscenities at us. Let's listen to that guy." Like seriously, just the MOST MINOR of adjustments to almost every post you make is the difference between me wanting to punch you, and me thinking you're the best new member we've had in a long time.