Life Help Thread

[JardyB10 4,865]

inb4 Jardy's misguided and probably drunken advice

 

My drunken advice would be to get shit-faced with her and see how things play out. That worked for me. The stars kind of aligned for it, but it still worked.

[boubabi 4,725]

[sterling 1,997]

Yeah I would say just ask her of she is free x night? Then she will say yes or no and if she says yes or no she will ask why. At that point just ask if she woukd like to go for supper and then a baseball game after. She should get the intent.

Just be cool friend and you'll be fine. I'm thinking she's into you too.

[Sandro 251]

I wish I could give some advice but I have a black heart that can only love movies and video games, or something.

 

It kinda sucks sometimes.

 

Good luck though, I think most people here have got it right. You gotta find a way to say "date", and then just go for it. It might suck if she says no, but it'll probably suck more never knowing. At least that's my thought process, but what the hell do I know?

 

Edited July 26, 2015 by Sandro

[gorlab 4,321]

something about hotdogs 

[BOOM 8,745]

Ask Brovy. He'll know.

[scoop 3,426]

Yeah I would say just ask her of she is free x night? Then she will say yes or no and if she says yes or no she will ask why. At that point just ask if she woukd like to go for supper and then a baseball game after. She should get the intent.

Just be cool friend and you'll be fine. I'm thinking she's into you too.

DINNER TOO? Can I take a loan out of the VHL donation account???

[Fire Tortorella 2,653]

Streetlight, on 26 Jul 2015 - 08:35 AM, said:

DINNER TOO? Can I take a loan out of the VHL donation account???

Diners make awesome cheap dates.

[Smarch 3,150]

Watch an episode of the friendzone on MTV and just do what those sorry losers do

[DollarAndADream 3,356]

Just ask her out and tell her you'd like if it was a date. You have a long life ahead of you and there are so many girls out there that you will be into. If you don't ask her out that way then you'll be regretting it every day after that day.

 

You'll end up going to your 10th year reunion, and she'll be married with kids and you'll wonder to yourself why you didn't let her know your intentions. Besides, she could be feeling the same way but isn't sure how to go about it either.

 

If she rejects it and just wants to be friends, then move on. Either be friends with her still or don't. It depends on the girl I guess, but sometimes being friends with a girl who you want to date will only hurt you in the end because all you'll ever want in your mind will be to date her.

 

Just go with your gut. Your gut is always right. Then, you can stick your penis into her gut possibly. Win/Win.

[scoop 3,426]

tbh normally when I'm in situations where I'm interested in a girl, I'll be all happy and shit like I am now, but I'll also be thinking "man it's gonna suck if she says no." For some reason now I'm not feeling that way. I'm not thinking about that at all, though I acknowledge that it is certainly a possibility. Idk why but I just feel good. I'm probably being recklessly optimistic, or maybe I've come to accept that life will move on regardless of her answer. Even if she says yes though it's not like a huge deal. I think that's when I'll start to get nervous about it though.

 

And I definitely agree that rejection is better than regret about not asking. If you don't ask because you think she'll say no, then at worst all that asking will do is just confirm your suspicions (well, and the whole "I don't want to ruin our friendship" excuse, but that's bs).

[DollarAndADream 3,356]

The worst thing is if you don't ask because you think she'll say no, then years later when you see her you find out she would have said yes. Except now she's not available.

 

Happened to me.

[scoop 3,426]

The worst thing is if you don't ask because you think she'll say no, then years later when you see her you find out she would have said yes. Except now she's not available.

 

Happened to me.

[scoop 3,426]

This is my most listened to song of the week, so maybe that's where this attitude is coming from.

 

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UhRXn2NRiWI

[Smarch 3,150]

Just do it don't be afraid. I had to ask my women out at work and that was awkward as fuck, but totally worth it.

[Victor 10,937]

This is my most listened to song of the week, so maybe that's where this attitude is coming from.

 

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UhRXn2NRiWI

holy fuck how did I not find this before

[scoop 3,426]

Just do it don't be afraid. I had to ask my women out at work and that was awkward as fuck, but totally worth it.

tbh I don't even feel afraid to ask. I'm not even really nervous at this point.

[boubabi 4,725]

A situation?

Mike the Situation is here

Edited July 26, 2015 by boubabi

[sterling 1,997]

Haha I'll give you $20 myself if she says yes. I echo the sentiment here that you've got to get on the horse and likely fall off a few times before you make it.

[JardyB10 4,865]

It's very good/helpful to your cause that you're not nervous. I think you're going to do great! And if you don't, I can link you to some of my favourite pornos if you want.

[Nike 106]

It's very good/helpful to your cause that you're not nervous. I think you're going to do great! And if you don't, I can link you to some of my favourite pornos if you want.

This is the hero the VHL needs, not the one it wants.

[Victor 10,937]

This is the hero the VHL needs, not the one it wants.

it's the one we deserve.

[brooks. 58]

MAKE YOUR INTENTIONS CLEAR. BE A LEADER. BE CONFIDENT. 

[scoop 3,426]

mfw :l

 

ayyy lmao turns out I was wrong on the 'doesn't currently have a bf' read. I don't remember how she brought him up in the conversation but it was before I asked so she took that away from me. Now I feel like I failed even though up until she brought him up I was still ready and not really nervous to ask.

[JardyB10 4,865]

Don't worry bro, just poison his drink and he'll die! That'll leave the field open for you.

 

In all seriousness, don't feel bad. Maybe channel that confidence in asking her to set you up with her equally attractive friends! And if there is none, then meet THEIR friends.