Kachur 112 Posted December 29, 2020 Share Posted December 29, 2020 (edited) So I owe people an explanation mainly anyone on or involved with the Wild. @Doomsdaymainly. A few people know this but I was scheduled to go get some tests done. My doctor suspected what I feared most. I got the results the day I left...and It confirmed what I feared. Cancer. I'm not saying this so people forgive me, they have every right to be upset. I'm saying this because VHL has always been my family. Regardless of how long I left I always came back. I was scared when I got the news. I panicked...I felt lost. I'm going to fight this, I will win. But I needed to let you all know. Especially those closest to me and those worried. I'm sorry for just leaving. I love this place and everyone in it. - Kachur Edited December 29, 2020 by Kachur Spade18, Esso2264, diacope and 13 others 9 3 4 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kachur 112 Posted December 29, 2020 Author Share Posted December 29, 2020 12 minutes ago, Tate said: I’ve been there good sir, stay positive and know we’ve got your back! Best wishes to you! Thanks boss. ❤ Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-810354 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doomsday 4,143 Posted December 29, 2020 Share Posted December 29, 2020 We love ya bud, and Sasky is behind you all the way!! Kachur 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-810363 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kachur 112 Posted December 29, 2020 Author Share Posted December 29, 2020 8 minutes ago, Doomsday said: We love ya bud, and Sasky is behind you all the way!! Thanks, Doom. That means a lot. Especially from you Brother Doomsday 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-810366 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Banackock 8,141 Posted December 29, 2020 Share Posted December 29, 2020 No one would be pissed off and if they are, fuck them (but I promise nobody is or was). You come first and what you’re going through is incredibly challenging, exhausting and full of many rollercoasters and unanswered questions that will take time being answered. I did not have, but my partner had a form of cancer. We found the mass in May, Biopsies in June (bad samples..) and July, found out what it was in August and immediately begun Chemotherapy under R-CHOP within a few days of finding out. Even just finding the mass was scary because you think the worst (I do. Her family didn’t and I’m glad I did! Kinda helped me a bit maybe). It was challenging and scary at times for me - I can’t even imagine for her but she was so strong and incredible no matter how hard the chemotherapy got on her body and mind.. as it went on, obviously much tougher. I still remember the start of it.. we knew what it was without it being confirmed. At the time it was just a mass.. but getting the phone call after the biopsies was probably the craziest moment of my life. I don’t know how to explain it. Scary? Im sure you’ve done your research and all of that. If you need someone to speak to or anything like that, I’ve spent many hours, at all hours of the day, researching and like I said, haven’t had it but never left the side of someone who did. I never missed a single appointment, chemo session or anything like that. 0300 start times at work sometimes just to take her to appointments.. the pandemic makes it worse because they literally can’t get sick or anything. If you need something or such, don’t hesitate. You’re not alone (obviously). Also, look after you. The VHL isn’t going anywhere. You’re important and we want to make sure you’re happy and well - both here and in life I wish you the best - happiness and health @Kachur. STAY STRONG. YOU HAVE THIS! Kachur and der meister 1 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-810455 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crstats23 341 Posted December 29, 2020 Share Posted December 29, 2020 I wish you the absolute best, kick cancers ass and I hope I speak for the entire league when I say we are all behind you tcookie and Kachur 1 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-810459 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kachur 112 Posted December 30, 2020 Author Share Posted December 30, 2020 2 hours ago, Banackock said: Im sure you’ve done your research and all of that. If you need someone to speak to or anything like that, I’ve spent many hours, at all hours of the day, researching and like I said, haven’t had it but never left the side of someone who did. I never missed a single appointment, chemo session or anything like that. 0300 start times at work sometimes just to take her to appointments.. the pandemic makes it worse because they literally can’t get sick or anything. If you need something or such, don’t hesitate. You’re not alone (obviously). Also, look after you. The VHL isn’t going anywhere. You’re important and we want to make sure you’re happy and well - both here and in life I wish you the best - happiness and health @Kachur. STAY STRONG. YOU HAVE THIS! You Beautiful Bitch. If I need anything I'll make sure to reach out. Thank you @Banackockfor the kind words. Thankfully we caught it early.. Banackock 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-810489 Share on other sites More sharing options...
tcookie 927 Posted December 30, 2020 Share Posted December 30, 2020 This is scary, difficult stuff you're going through so don't feel bad for leaving. Take care of yourself... I'm pretty new here, joined after you left but I understand what you mean when you say VHL is like family. This community is awesome and I'm sure we're all behind you. Wish you the best man, you got this. Kachur 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-810515 Share on other sites More sharing options...
gorlab 4,321 Posted December 30, 2020 Share Posted December 30, 2020 You got this!!! Good health and big wealth in 2021. Kachur 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-810518 Share on other sites More sharing options...
OrbitingDeath 3,229 Posted December 30, 2020 Share Posted December 30, 2020 Win this fight Kachur , i believe you can Kachur 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-810543 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kendrick 4,741 Posted December 30, 2020 Share Posted December 30, 2020 Alex, you got this man! Kachur 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-810544 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kachur 112 Posted January 5, 2021 Author Share Posted January 5, 2021 On 12/30/2020 at 3:37 AM, tcookie said: This is scary, difficult stuff you're going through so don't feel bad for leaving. Take care of yourself... I'm pretty new here, joined after you left but I understand what you mean when you say VHL is like family. This community is awesome and I'm sure we're all behind you. Wish you the best man, you got this. Thanks man Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-811842 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kachur 112 Posted January 5, 2021 Author Share Posted January 5, 2021 On 12/30/2020 at 5:04 AM, gorlab said: You got this!!! Good health and big wealth in 2021. you know it Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-811843 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kachur 112 Posted January 5, 2021 Author Share Posted January 5, 2021 On 12/30/2020 at 12:50 PM, OrbitingDeath said: Win this fight Kachur , i believe you can Thanks I appreciate it OD Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-811844 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kachur 112 Posted January 5, 2021 Author Share Posted January 5, 2021 On 12/30/2020 at 1:04 PM, Kendrick said: Alex, you got this man! Thanks Joey. Ill fight this Kendrick 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-811845 Share on other sites More sharing options...
mediocrepony 1,216 Posted January 5, 2021 Share Posted January 5, 2021 I hope you get through this! we haven't really ever talked at all apart from me making you a graphic but I hope you stay well! Kachur 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-811850 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kachur 112 Posted January 5, 2021 Author Share Posted January 5, 2021 6 minutes ago, GrittyIsKing09 said: I hope you get through this! we haven't really ever talked at all apart from me making you a graphic but I hope you stay well! Thank you Gritty and it was an amazing Graphic sooooo mediocrepony 1 Link to comment https://vhlforum.com/topic/97152-explanation/#findComment-811852 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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