Admin Victor 10,851 Posted December 10, 2020 Admin Share Posted December 10, 2020 I look forward to causing mass confusion by referring to you as Spartan's ex-girlfriend. bigAL, solas, Prout and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissioner Josh 1,658 Posted December 10, 2020 Commissioner Share Posted December 10, 2020 5 hours ago, chatfan036 said: or having a 500 piece teletubby collection. oddly specific. fishy, eaglesfan036, tcookie and 1 other 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gorlab 4,321 Posted December 10, 2020 Share Posted December 10, 2020 (edited) You are a very lovely person, fishy, and if this makes you feel better / more confident / happier than I will do my best to accommodate that! I'm glad you felt you could post this in our community and everybody is being supportive of you and the initiative as a whole. I find this is easier to accept / adapt to, when it's a person you've gotten to know a little bit before they start requesting specific pronouns, or announce a non-CIS gender identity. I do agree that an individual human should act/live however it makes them feel comfortable, as long as it's not hurting another person. However in my personal experience, some non-CIS gendered people aren't tolerant/patient enough with allowing others to accept/process/acclimatize to their preferred pronouns or identity, and often villainize people who do not immediately change their behaviour based on an individual's request. Like I said, I will try my very best to accommodate VHL members gender identities. I just hope that people won't be villainzed if they share a different viewpoint on gender, because IMO the "two gender" system that society/civilization has observed up until recently is just as valid of a viewpoint as the gender spectrum viewpoint. I'm not psychologist/biologist/scientist/authority on the matter by any means, but I'm just speaking as a CIS-gendered male millennial bordering on boomer who smokes weed and does hoodrat shit. Edited December 10, 2020 by gorlab fishy, Victor, Spartan and 3 others 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beaviss 4,956 Posted December 10, 2020 Share Posted December 10, 2020 6 minutes ago, gorlab said: You are a very lovely person, fishy, and if this makes you feel better / more confident / happier than I will do my best to accommodate that! I'm glad you felt you could post this in our community and everybody is being supportive of you and the initiative as a whole. I find this is easier to accept / adapt to, when it's a person you've gotten to know a little bit before they start requesting specific pronouns, or announce a non-CIS gender identity. I do agree that an individual human should act/live however it makes them feel comfortable, as long as it's not hurting another person. However in my personal experience, some non-CIS gendered people aren't tolerant/patient enough with allowing others to accept/process/acclimatize to their preferred pronouns or identity, and often villainize people who do not immediately change their behaviour based on an individual's request. Like I said, I will try my very best to accommodate VHL members gender identities. I just hope that people won't be villainzed if they share a different viewpoint on gender, because IMO the "two gender" system that society/civilization has observed up until recently is just as valid of a viewpoint as the gender spectrum viewpoint. I'm not psychologist/biologist/scientist/authority on the matter by any means, but I'm just speaking as a CIS-gendered male millennial bordering on boomer who smokes weed and does hoodrat shit. This might be the most positive Gorlab post in history. fishy, solas and Prout 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigAL 2,176 Posted December 10, 2020 Share Posted December 10, 2020 17 minutes ago, gorlab said: You are a very lovely person, fishy, and if this makes you feel better / more confident / happier than I will do my best to accommodate that! I'm glad you felt you could post this in our community and everybody is being supportive of you and the initiative as a whole. I find this is easier to accept / adapt to, when it's a person you've gotten to know a little bit before they start requesting specific pronouns, or announce a non-CIS gender identity. I do agree that an individual human should act/live however it makes them feel comfortable, as long as it's not hurting another person. However in my personal experience, some non-CIS gendered people aren't tolerant/patient enough with allowing others to accept/process/acclimatize to their preferred pronouns or identity, and often villainize people who do not immediately change their behaviour based on an individual's request. Like I said, I will try my very best to accommodate VHL members gender identities. I just hope that people won't be villainzed if they share a different viewpoint on gender, because IMO the "two gender" system that society/civilization has observed up until recently is just as valid of a viewpoint as the gender spectrum viewpoint. I'm not psychologist/biologist/scientist/authority on the matter by any means, but I'm just speaking as a CIS-gendered male millennial bordering on boomer who smokes weed and does hoodrat shit. holy shit fishy, you made gorlab's heart grow three sizes bigger. It's a Christmas miracle! mediocrepony 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dil 1,757 Posted December 11, 2020 Share Posted December 11, 2020 9 hours ago, chatfan036 said: or having a 500 piece teletubby collection Is 432 okay? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eaglesfan036 4,596 Posted December 11, 2020 Share Posted December 11, 2020 28 minutes ago, Dil said: Is 432 okay? Not if you own them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dil 1,757 Posted December 11, 2020 Share Posted December 11, 2020 25 minutes ago, chatfan036 said: Not if you own them Oh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Admin Victor 10,851 Posted February 27, 2021 Admin Share Posted February 27, 2021 On 12/10/2020 at 8:20 PM, Victor said: I look forward to causing mass confusion by referring to you as Spartan's ex-girlfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr_Hatter 1,608 Posted February 27, 2021 Share Posted February 27, 2021 fish how did I not see this forever ago. Hi @fishy thanks for sharing this with us ❤ read through this after you posted it in thunderzone this morning. I think the patience you have shown has been fantastic and a very positive influence on the community. Keep being you bud gorlab and fishy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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